Emotions are frequent companions in our lives. They can’t be controlled; they come and go like the weather. Nevertheless, music has a powerful influence on our emotions. For instance, human beings are so fixated on the idea of happiness. This is why Pharell Williams’ “Happy” was a massive hit.
However, British music acts Adele and Sam Smith have received global recognition and scooped various awards for belting out sad heartbreaking songs. When Adele released her new album “25” recently, the Internet was thrown into ‘sadness.’ Virtually everybody had her single “Hello” on repeat. Some even made cover versions of the sad song.
This got me asking myself some questions like why the huge attachment to sad songs despite our obsession for happiness? how many people are truly happy?
Funnily, I went through my music collection and realised I have more sad songs than happy songs. To worsen the matter, I found out that the sad songs were some of my favourite songs. I assure you I’m not a masochist nor a saddist so the result was surprising to me. I bet you if you go through yours, you may get the same result.
Here is a list of 50 popular songs that are actually sad. You might find some of your favourite songs in it too.
1. Wiz Khalifa ft Charlie Puth – See You Again
2. Sia – Big Girls Cry
3. Adele – Hello
4. Adele – Someone Like You
5. Sam Smith – Lay Me Down
6. Sam Smith – Stay With Me
7. Sam Smith – Not The Only One
8. 2Face Idibia – True Love
9. Omarion – Ice Box
10. Nicki Minaj – Pills & Portions
11. Seether ft Amy Lee – Broken
12. Hinder – Lips of Angel
13. Ed Sheeran – Kiss Me
14. Drake – Find Your Love
15. Justin Timberlake – Lovestoned
16. Enrique Iglesias ft Sean Garrett – Away
17. Rascal Flatts – What Hurts The Most
18. Rascal Flatts – Here Comes Goodbye
19. The Script – BreakEven
20. Hoobastank – The Reason
21. Bon Jovi – Misunderstood
22. Coldplay – Fix You
23. Coldplay – The Scientist
24. One Republic – Say (All I Need)
25. Tom Odell – Another Love
26. One Republic – Apologise
27. James Blunt – You’re Beautiful
28. Rihanna ft Mikky Ekko – Stay
29. Pink – Just Like A Pill
30. Mario Winans ft. P.Diddy – I Don’t Wanna Know
31. Puff Daddy ft. Faith Evans/112 – I’ll Be Missing You
32. Bruno Mars – Grenade/If I Was Your Man
33. Mr Probs – Waves
34. Ruben Studdard – Sorry 2004
35. Trey Songz – Never Again
36. James Arthur – Recovery
37. Jennifer Paige – Stranded
38. Daniel Merriweather – Red
39. Gotye ft Kimbra – Somebody I Used To Know
40. Drake – Mavins Room
41. Drake – Hotline Bling (don’t let the video confuse you)
42. Snow Patrol or Leona Lewis – Run
43. Chris Brown – Say Goodbye
44. Chris Brown ft. Kendrick Lamar – Autumn Leaves
45. Nas ft. Quan – Just A Moment
46. Nelly Furtado – In God’s Hands
47. Nelly Furtado – All Good Things (Come To An End)
48. Ne-Yo – Do You
49. Chris Brown ft Tyga & Kevin McCall – Deuces
50. Creed – One Last Breath
Did you find any of your favourite songs on the list? If yes, surprising isn’t it? I have come to the conclusion that sad songs are unarguably the best songs. Initially, I had thought sad songs are there to help us deal with the emotional stress of a current heartbreak, death, rejection or other misfortunes in life however I come to realise that sad songs are also pleasurable.
Recent studies by German and Japanese researchers respectively showed that sad songs don’t necessarily make us sad. Rather they play a role in emotional regulation. Along with sadness, they also evoke nostalgia, tenderness, empathy, peacefulness, forgiveness and other pleasant emotions like bliss and awe. Also, they were found to be more likely than happy songs to arouse our pleasurable emotions.
Phew! Not all sadness is bad afterall; it can also contribute richly to our lives. However, one ought to be careful before his/her sadness deteriorates into depression.
I hope I have managed to put you in the mood for some sad music going into the weekend. What’s your go to sad song to make you feel better. Please share in the comment section.
12 Replies to “Me, You and Sad Songs”
Very impressive write-up Rinz… As for me and my favourite sad songs, I can’t really place a hand on one now… I have an evolving preference for music… that being said, I would say the last song I fixated on(which was coincidentally ‘sad’) was Adele’s Hello and Onawunmi’s version of the same song.
I think the above mentioned artists found a way to convert their sad experiences into songs that churn out happiness. If that is true, it’s a lesson for us all, to find a way to use our negative experiences for the uplifting of others.
Thank you for the compliment. Yeah, Adele made a lot yearn to hear the voices of their exes and I reckon a lot felt better afterwards (or not).
Stunning but true!
Yes. Weird isn’t it?
Music for me is the best way for me to feel anything. Sad songs remains me of how bad experiences from the past can be good memories, like it helps you come to peace with everything that has happened in your life & what used to be bad experiences you just accept them & move on. To me sad songs helps me embrace/accept bad moments which helps me move on (find happiness). Plus the lyrics of sad songs are usually so good
What’s more to say, you’ve said it all
It has something to do with the lyrical content. Sad songs seem to take you to levels so called ‘Happy songs’ wont. They get you thinking, they recall memories, they paint pictures,…. . At some point in my life, I played System of a Down’s ‘Lonely Day’ first thing every morning. Despite the grim lyrics, it kinda gave me some kick to start my day. I’m not your typical religious Nigerian, so i never felt the lyrics would have a religious negative impact on my day.
Yes the lyrical content is the attraction. I remember the first time I heard Mr Probs’ Waves (the slow version not the extended/mix version), it made me happy in a way I couldn’t explain.
hehehehe what can I say, but it makes me to reflect on life and chase away fantasies that will keep me deluded from achieving my goals, gives me a determined moral!!! as in Obi akpor.com!!
*morale* as in ginger!!!
I love this. Imagine my surprise to find most of my favourite songs in the list. Who would have thunk? Kudos Arturo
Thank you Maggie for stopping by. Glad you enjoyed it. That’s exactly how I felt when I had the same epiphany. Strange isn’t it?
LikeLiked by 1 person